Anger Management Expert Mitch Abrams Sounds Off on Coach Bullying Allegations

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Sport Psychologist Mitch Abrams
Sport Psychologist Mitch Abrams

Mitch Abrams credits former college basketball coach Bob Knight for almost single-handedly building his career as “the anger management guy in sports,” an unofficial title he insists he holds by default. “I’m the only person who really will say something out loud about it,” says Abrams, a nationally recognized sport psychologist, expert on sport-related trauma and author of Anger Management in Sport (Human Kinetics, 2010). Given a recent wave of bullying allegations against collegiate coaches, including those that this year alone led to the terminations of Cal swimming coach Teri McKeever and Northwestern baseball coach Jim Foster, as well as a plan of corrective action for Utah gymnastics under coach Tom Farden, AB senior editor Paul Steinbach asked Abrams to say something out loud about the dynamics at play when adult athletes feel emotionally abused by their coaches.

How can coaches know how to identify the line between tough coaching that seeks to inspire athletes to exceed their own perceived performance limits and then abusive behavior? Is that a fine line to walk for coaches today?
I think you just captured the whole thing in a nutshell. It’s not just a fine line, it’s a blurry line. And it’s difficult. I mean, there are some coaches out there who are a**holes, but the bulk of them aren’t. I think that’s part of what gets missed here. First off, there’s not enough coaching education. That’s a big issue. Coaches tend to coach the way they were coached, and the culture has changed. Athletes are more sensitive. Coaches are more sensitive. Sometimes, coaches are just as insensitive as they were all along, but I think that most often when this happens, the coach doesn’t even realize they’re bullying. It’s a different dance when you have someone who’s sadistic, who’s like this draconian drill sergeant idiot. There are some of those guys out there. And women, for that matter. There’s also the issue that different athletes respond to different things. There are some athletes that you’re not going to get the most out of them unless you give them the metaphorical kick in the a**. And where is too far? Sometimes, it’s very hard to tell. From a coaching perspective, we would always prefer to incentivize more than punish, right? You always want to reward good behavior. There’s still this draconian, antiquated theory among a lot of coaches of using physical exertion as a way to punish bad behavior. And they think that that’s good coaching.

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